{"id":4312,"date":"2025-12-21T07:47:31","date_gmt":"2025-12-21T07:47:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wpthoren.hocmaimai.com\/?p=4312"},"modified":"2025-12-21T07:47:31","modified_gmt":"2025-12-21T07:47:31","slug":"%e6%ba%96%e5%82%99%e4%b8%ad-nghe-thuat-noi-giam-noi-tranh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thorenbook.com\/ja\/%e6%ba%96%e5%82%99%e4%b8%ad-nghe-thuat-noi-giam-noi-tranh\/","title":{"rendered":"\u6e96\u5099\u4e2d \u2013 Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, Th\u1ee3 R\u00e8n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ga Kanie \u2014 m\u1ed9t ga nh\u1ecf g\u1ea7n Nagoya \u2014 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n tr\u01b0a c\u00f9ng b\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen. Nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1eb5n \u1edf ga, n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eaby tay ch\u00e0o. Ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e1i xe t\u1edbi qu\u00e1n \u0103n, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1n \u00c2u, v\u00ec th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc tui m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 gh\u00e9 qu\u00e1n Nh\u1eadt. C\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, m\u1ed7i v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n, \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1eb9n cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5i: khi th\u00ec qu\u00e1n Vi\u1ec7t, khi th\u00ec qu\u00e1n Trung, khi th\u00ec qu\u00e1n \u00c2u \u2014 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n xen l\u1eabn giao thoa v\u0103n ho\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sau b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a, Th\u1ee3 R\u00e8n nh\u1eadn t\u00fai qu\u00e0 nh\u1ecf \u2014 \u00edt \u1edbt \u0111\u1ecf v\u00e0 l\u00e1 c\u1ee7 c\u1ea3i non b\u00e1c g\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u qua m\u1edbi h\u00e1i ngo\u00e0i ru\u1ed9ng. C\u00f2n th\u1ee3 r\u00e8n t\u1eb7ng l\u1ea1i hai b\u00e1c m\u1ea5y qu\u1ea3 m\u01b0\u1edbp tr\u1ed3ng trong v\u01b0\u1eddn. B\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec \u1edf Nh\u1eadt m\u01b0\u1edbp hi\u1ebfm khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong b\u1eefa \u0103n, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecd l\u1ea5y x\u01a1 m\u01b0\u1edbp l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3 r\u1eeda b\u00e1t. Th\u1ee3 R\u00e8n b\u00e8n chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1ch n\u1ea5u canh m\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u2014 v\u1eeba l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i v\u0103n ho\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Khi ra kh\u1ecfi qu\u00e1n, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft Th\u1ee3 R\u00e8n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i n\u01a1i t\u1ea5m bi\u1ec3n treo tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1eeda: \u300c\u6e96\u5099\u4e2d\u300d\u2014 <em>\u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb<\/em>.<br \/>\nTh\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb, v\u00ec d\u00f2ng ch\u1eef \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd m\u1edf c\u1eeda, n\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201cCh\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb, qu\u00fd kh\u00e1ch vui l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ee3i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng sau gi\u1edd m\u1edf c\u1eeda, c\u0169ng t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3ng \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i h\u00e0m \u00fd \u201cch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3n kh\u00e1ch\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ghi \u201c\u0110\u00f3ng c\u1eeda\u201d hay \u201cK\u1ebft th\u00fac\u201d, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u201c\u0110ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb\u201d \u2014 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1eabn t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea7y Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n: <strong>n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m, n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a ng<\/strong><strong>\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt <\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u00f2ng, nh\u1eb9, v\u00e0 h\u00e0m \u00fd. Ai hi\u1ec3u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m; ai ch\u01b0a quen c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y k\u1ef3, ai \u0111\u1ea3 k\u00edch th\u00ec th\u1ea5y gh\u00e9t. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a v\u0103n ho\u00e1 \u201c\u5bdf\u3057 (sasshi)\u201d \u2014 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i ra. Theo c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd giao ti\u1ebfp, vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, gi\u1ea3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u201cemotional intelligence\u201d \u2014 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u2014 trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede Vi\u1ec7t Nam, cha \u00f4ng ta c\u0169ng t\u1eebng d\u1ea1y:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n \u0103n n\u00f3i n\u1eeda l\u1eddi,<br \/>\n\u0110\u1ec3 cho k\u1ebb d\u1ea1i n\u1eeda m\u1eebng n\u1eeda lo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3i \u00edt m\u00e0 th\u1ea5m, kh\u00f4ng gay g\u1eaft m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u1eabn hi\u1ec3u \u2014 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>V\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 trong bi\u1ec3n hi\u1ec7u \u201c\u6e96\u5099\u4e2d\u201d. N\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i quanh ta:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Trong c\u00f4ng s\u1edf:<\/strong><br \/>\nThay v\u00ec n\u00f3i \u201cB\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u1ee7a anh sai r\u1ed3i\u201d, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cCh\u1ed7 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem l\u1ea1i th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat cho ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n anh nh\u00e9.\u201d<br \/>\nC\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh:<\/strong><br \/>\nKhi con l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 s\u1eefa, thay v\u00ec \u201cCon v\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1!\u201d, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cCh\u1eafc con v\u1ed9i qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i, m\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng lau nh\u00e9.\u201d<br \/>\nS\u1ef1 m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, m\u00e0 v\u1eabn h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i:<\/strong><br \/>\nKhi qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea treo b\u1ea3ng \u201c\u0110ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec3u ngay m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<br \/>\nC\u0169ng nh\u01b0 khi ta n\u00f3i \u201cH\u00f4m nay ch\u1eafc h\u01a1i m\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f4m kh\u00e1c g\u1eb7p nh\u00e9\u201d thay v\u00ec \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u201d \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef g\u00ecn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u201c<\/strong><strong>\u6e96\u5099\u4e2d\u201d trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 <strong>n\u00f3i v\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ho\u1eb7c t\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec3m cho s<\/strong><strong>\u1ef1 th\u1ea3o mai<\/strong>, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 <strong>n\u00f3i kh\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef ho\u00e0 kh\u00ed v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong>. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i gi\u1ea3m n\u00f3i tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng che gi\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, m\u00e0 <strong>ch\u1ecdn g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn h\u01a1n<\/strong> \u2014 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng len qua t\u1ea5m r\u00e8m, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00f3i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn s\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #800000;\"><strong>H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng<\/strong>, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i 3 gi\u00e2y v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi:<br \/>\n\u201cN\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n nghe th\u1ebf n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Th\u1eed thay th\u1ebf c\u00e1c c\u00e2u ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/strong><br \/>\nV\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf!\u201d \u2192 \u201cN\u1ebfu l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt quanh m\u00ecnh.<\/strong><br \/>\nCh\u00fa \u00fd c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd xin l\u1ed7i, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, hay \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m nh\u01b0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u300c\u3082\u3046\u5c11\u3057\u3060\u3051\u304a\u6642\u9593\u3092\u3044\u305f\u3060\u3051\u307e\u3059\u304b\uff1f\u300d(Cho t\u00f4i xin th\u00eam ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian nh\u00e9?)<\/li>\n<li>\u300c\u4eca\u56de\u306f\u3054\u7e01\u304c\u306a\u304b\u3063\u305f\u3067\u3059\u306d\u3002\u300d(L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 duy\u00ean.)<br \/>\nC\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li><strong>M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ghi l\u1ea1i 1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00e9o h\u01a1n.<\/strong><br \/>\nVi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap n\u00e3o h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u201cm\u1eabu c\u00e2u m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i\u201d t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u2014 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong giao ti\u1ebfp chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u00e0y nay n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u1edf Nh\u1eadt, c\u00e1i bi\u1ec3n nh\u1ecf \u201c\u6e96\u5099\u4e2d\u201d b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ee3 r\u00e8n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb tr\u0103m n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y hay n\u00ean m\u1edbi lan r\u1ed9ng ra c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u1eady n\u1ebfu ta th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi Nh\u1eadt c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf trong c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1ec9. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u, n\u0103m m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n ph\u1edf c\u0169ng treo t\u1ea5m bi\u1ec3n \u201cPh\u1edf ABC \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb\u201d.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, Th\u1ee3 R\u00e8n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ga Kanie \u2014 m\u1ed9t ga nh\u1ecf g\u1ea7n Nagoya \u2014 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n tr\u01b0a c\u00f9ng b\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen. Nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1eb5n \u1edf ga, n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 v\u1eaby tay ch\u00e0o. Ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng nhau l\u00e1i xe t\u1edbi qu\u00e1n \u0103n, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1n \u00c2u, v\u00ec th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc tui m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 gh\u00e9 qu\u00e1n Nh\u1eadt. 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